Caring for my mum has changed me in ways I didn’t expect. Not through clear lessons, but through small moments that have settled over time.

Hello, welcome to another moment of clarity. Today I want to talk about something that does not get spoken about enough. Not the big dramatic moments of caregiving, but the quiet, grinding ones. The ones that happen in the middle of an ordinary afternoon and leave you standing in a doorway feeling completely lost. I am talking about the moment your person says no. No to eating. No to drinking. No to washing. No to the medication they have taken every day for years. And you ar

Hello, and welcome to another moment of clarity. Evenings can be unpredictable when you care for someone with dementia. Some days end quietly, with familiar routines guiding us through, and other days turn quickly, leaving you unsure how to respond. Friday reminded me just how quickly the mood in a house can shift, and how small adjustments can make a difference when sundowning sets in. I Knew Before She Said a Word Mum came home from her day centre on Friday in what I can on